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How to Be a Faucet and Not a Drain

mindset Apr 09, 2025
How to Be a Faucet and Not a Drain | Arangio

Life comes at you fast. One minute you’re sipping coffee in peace, the next your inbox looks like it’s been hit by a digital tsunami. Throw in a few bills, a cranky boss, and maybe a grand kid screaming because their sock feels “weird,” and boom—your nervous system is fried like a funnel cake at the state fair.

But there’s one incredibly simple way to hit the reset button: Take a brisk 10-minute walk. That’s it. No supplements. No cold plunges. No complicated biohacks. Just you, your legs, and a little fresh air.

Let’s unpack why this is one of the most underappreciated stress-reduction tools in your mental health toolbox—and how you can level up by becoming a “faucet,” not a “drain.”

The Power of a 10-Minute Walk

When you’re stressed, it’s easy to freeze. You feel paralyzed. So your brain tells you to scroll Instagram, stress-eat a half-bag of peanut butter pretzels, or get mad at your partner because they forgot to replace the toilet paper roll. Again.

But here’s a healthier idea: Walk.

Walking increases blood flow, not just to your muscles, but to your brain. That means more oxygen and nutrients to your noggin—which helps you think more clearly, make better decisions, and elevate your mood. The rhythmic movement calms your nervous system and dials down that chronic fight-or-flight response we’ve all been living in since 2020.

Action Step: Set a timer on your phone. Three times a day, walk for 10 minutes. After breakfast. After lunch. After dinner. No phone. Just walk and breathe.

Walking as a Creativity Hack

Some of the greatest minds in history—Einstein, Beethoven, Steve Jobs—were obsessive walkers. They knew that physical movement unlocks mental breakthroughs. I’ve had some of my best ideas for workouts, articles, and parenting strategies while walking the same loop in my neighborhood. No joke, I once solved a business problem halfway through a walk and was so excited, I almost fist-pumped in front of a squirrel.

Walking shifts your brain from analytical thinking to creative problem-solving. So if you’re stuck—on a work project, in a conversation, or in life—move your feet. Your brain will follow.

Action Step: Next time you’re feeling stuck, go for a walk with a notepad or record voice memos on your phone. Let your thoughts wander. You’ll be surprised what bubbles up.

How to Be the Faucet, Not the Drain

We all know a “drain.” You walk into a room feeling good, and after five minutes with this person, you’re questioning your life choices. They complain about everything. The weather. Their lunch. The way the barista looked at them sideways. They suck the life out of you like a vampire who skipped breakfast.

On the flip side, you’ve got “faucets.” These people pour into you. They’re optimistic, focused, and energizing. You leave their presence ready to conquer the world—or at least fold the laundry with a little more pep.

Here’s the thing: You get to choose which one you want to be. And you become a faucet through your habits.

Action Step: Audit your energy. After spending time with someone, do you feel drained or energized? Limit your exposure to drains, and invest more time with faucets. And reflect on how you show up. Be honest—are you the faucet… or the slow-drip leak?

Use Movement as Emotional Regulation

Let’s be honest. When stress hits, most people default to one of two responses: yelling or eating. Sometimes both. Ever snapped at someone for no reason and then housed a sleeve of Oreos like it was a competitive sport? Yep, me too. In fact, I never met a slice of chocolate cake that didn't look extra delicious when I'm feeling overwhelmed.

Walking is a way to interrupt the stress response loop. It gives your body something productive to do, while giving your mind the space to process what just happened.

And because it’s low impact and low intensity, walking won’t tax your joints or nervous system like a high-intensity workout might—especially when you’re already maxed out emotionally.

Action Step: Make it a rule: Anytime you feel overwhelmed, go for a walk before reacting. Create space between the trigger and your response. Movement before mouth.

Build Your Ideal Life With a Growth Mindset

In her book Mindset, psychologist Carol Dweck explains the difference between fixed mindset and growth mindset people.

  • A fixed mindset says: “I’m not good at this. I’ll never change. This is just the way I am.”
  • A growth mindset says: “I’m not good at this… yet. I can learn. I can improve.”

You guessed it: Faucets have a growth mindset. Drains? Not so much.

If you want to build your “ideal body” or create a better life, you need to start believing that change is possible—and that progress comes through showing up daily, not waiting for motivation to strike.

Action Step: Practice what I call “failure reps.” Next time something doesn’t go your way—a missed workout, a bad meal, a tough day—write down what you learned. Train yourself to see every failure as a lesson, not a verdict.

Create a Walk-and-Talk Routine With Your Kids or Partner

Want a way to connect deeper with the people you care about? Take a walk together. No distractions. No screens. Just conversation and shared movement.

These are called walk-and-talks, and they’re magic. Something about moving side-by-side (instead of sitting face-to-face) makes even tough conversations feel easier.

Plus, you’re modeling healthy habits. Your kids might not listen to everything you say—but they’ll definitely copy what you do.

Action Step: Schedule one walk-and-talk each week with a loved one. Use it to catch up, vent, dream, or brainstorm. Walking is the glue that strengthens relationships.

Make It Part of Your Recovery Strategy

If you’re lifting weights 4x per week (like you should be), your body needs time to recover. But recovery doesn’t mean couch potato mode.

That’s where active recovery comes in.

Walking supports blood circulation, aids lymphatic drainage (translation: it helps get rid of waste), and promotes better sleep—all without adding more stress to your body. Plus, it keeps your joints moving and helps prevent soreness. Translation? You’ll feel like a human, not a rusty robot, the day after squats. 

Action Step: On your non-training days, walk 30-60 minutes total throughout the day. Break it up if needed. It still counts.

Go Phone-Free (Your Brain Will Thank You)

Here’s a novel idea: Take a walk without scrolling. No Instagram. No news. No games.

Your brain needs boredom to spark new ideas and allow stress to melt away. If you’re constantly bombarded with information, you never give your nervous system a chance to reset.

Remember: You’re not a robot. You’re a human being. With a brain, not a browser.

Action Step: Pick one walk per day to go completely phone-free. Leave your device at home or put it in airplane mode. Observe. Breathe. Notice stuff—like that tree you never saw before or the fact that your neighbor’s lawn gnome is judging you.

Combine Walking With Mindfulness

Want to take your walk to the next level? Make it a walking meditation. Here’s how: With every step, sync your breath. Inhale for three steps, exhale for three. Focus on the sensation of your feet hitting the ground. Feel the breeze. Smell the air. Be where your feet are.

This kind of movement-mindfulness fusion helps calm your nervous system, improves your mood, and rewires your brain for presence over panic.

Action Step: Start with one 5-minute walking meditation per day. Focus on your breath and surroundings. If your mind wanders, gently return to the rhythm of your steps.

Make It a Non-Negotiable Habit

Here’s the truth: Walking works best when you do it consistently. You brush your teeth every day, right? (Please say yes.) You can make walking just as automatic.

Put it in your calendar. Stack it with another habit (like coffee or journaling). Make it your go-to stress response. Because the people who get results aren’t the ones with the perfect plan—they’re the ones who do the basics… consistently.

Action Step: Treat your walk like a meeting. Block it off on your calendar. Set a recurring reminder. And if anyone asks why you’re unavailable, say: “Sorry, I have a meeting with my mitochondria.”

Get Support (Because Accountability Works)

Here’s the part most people don’t want to admit: Going it alone is hard. That’s why our 12-week coaching program exists—to help you stay accountable, motivated, and consistent.

It’s not about doing more. It’s about doing what works, consistently, with support.

You get the workouts. The nutrition strategies. The mindset tools. And the daily encouragement that makes you feel like someone’s got your back—even when life is chaotic.

Action Step: If you’re ready to finally build a body and life that feels as good as it looks, tap here to join us.

There’s zero risk and everything to gain.

Final Thoughts: Keep It Simple

Stress is inevitable. But suffering? That’s optional.

You don’t need to solve everything today. You just need to move your body, clear your head, and choose to show up—on the days when it’s easy, and especially on the days when it’s not.

Ten minutes. That’s all it takes. One foot in front of the other. Because when you walk… you change your chemistry. You change your thoughts. You change your life.

Summary:

When stress runs high, a 10-minute walk can change everything. It boosts brain function, eases anxiety, improves mood, and helps you recover from workouts. Plus, it cultivates a growth mindset—the kind that turns you into a faucet (a source of energy) instead of a drain (an energy vampire). Whether you walk solo to think, or with a friend to connect, making walking a daily ritual builds resilience, boosts health, and creates mental clarity. Pair it with four weekly training sessions, and you’re unstoppable. Remember: Small, consistent habits—like daily walks—are what build a strong body and an unshakeable mind.

To your success,

Coach Joe

 


 

Joseph Arangio helps 40+ men and women get leaner, stronger, and happier. He's delivered over 100,000 transformation programs to satisfied clients around the globe. If you want to lose weight from home, with the best online longevity personal trainer, or you want to visit the best age-management personal trainer in the Lehigh Valley, you can take a free 14-day trial.

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