How to Embrace Simplicity
Oct 28, 2024Ever feel like life is a game show where the host is constantly tossing distractions your way? And you’re standing there, juggling work, workouts, meal prep, family, pets, that plant you keep forgetting to water—and now they want you to add "mindfulness" to the mix? Let’s get real: modern life can feel like a bad infomercial. “Wait, there’s more!” Yep, more clutter, more hacks, more stress. And just when you think you’ve got it under control, someone suggests a new routine with 72 steps. Simplicity feels like a mythical creature at this point, right?
Well, here’s the deal. Life’s not supposed to be a marathon of multitasking or a daily “to-do” sprint. It’s supposed to be simple. No magic formulas, no gadgets. Just real, practical steps to cut through the noise, simplify your life, and get to what actually matters. So, let’s stop juggling and start simplifying. And don’t worry, no new gadgets or “must-have apps” here—just good old common sense.
How to Embrace Simplicity
Simplicity isn’t about cutting corners or taking the easy way out. Instead, it’s about choosing what truly matters and letting go of the rest. This doesn’t happen overnight, so be patient with yourself as you start to untangle the web of unnecessary complexity in your life.
Step 1 - Train Smart
Let’s talk fitness. It’s easy to overcomplicate training with complex routines, exotic equipment, or the latest trends in exercise. Instead, a straightforward, consistent approach yields the best results. Here's a breakdown of the training formula:
Four 45-Minute Sessions
Aim for four effective sessions each week, each lasting 45 minutes. In these sessions, focus on the basics that work and deliver results:
- Dynamic Warmup: Start with movements that increase blood flow to your muscles and activate your joints. This could include jumping jacks, arm circles, or leg swings—moves that take 5-10 minutes but make a difference.
- Resistance Training: Strength training is your foundation. If you’re over 40, lifting weights not only builds muscle but also improves bone density and boosts your metabolism. Stick to compound movements like squats, deadlifts, and presses, which work multiple muscle groups at once.
- Metabolic Conditioning: Incorporate 5-10 minutes of high-intensity interval training (HIIT) or cardio as a finisher. Keep it simple; think sprints on the treadmill or jump rope intervals.
- Cool Down: Stretch your muscles, especially those you trained. It aids recovery and helps you relax post-workout.
Consistency over Complexity
If you miss a workout, don’t stress about it. Perfection isn’t the goal—consistency is. Even 80% adherence will yield better results than constantly switching programs or worrying about perfect execution. As a coach, I’ve seen the value in sticking to the basics and focusing on a few high-impact exercises. Keep it simple, stay consistent, and watch the results unfold.
Step 2 - Practice Mindful Nutrition
Nutrition can easily feel overwhelming, with countless diets, theories, and “must-have” supplements competing for attention. But in reality, the fundamentals of mindful eating are timeless and universal. Keep it simple with the following steps:
Plan, Prep, and Portion
Preparation is key to mindful eating. Here’s a foolproof approach:
- Weekly Meal Prep: Dedicate one day each week to cooking in bulk. Roast a tray of veggies, cook up some lean protein (like chicken breast, ground turkey, or fish), and make a batch of whole grains (like brown rice or quinoa).
- Single-Serve Containers: Use containers to portion out meals in advance. This eliminates decision-making during the week, especially after a long day.
- Balance and Variety: Aim for balanced meals that include lean protein, a source of complex carbs, and a healthy fat. This mix keeps you energized and prevents cravings.
Avoid Food Complexity
You don’t need exotic ingredients or overly restrictive eating plans. Stick with whole, minimally processed foods—what I like to call “single-ingredient” foods. They’re simple, nutritious, and don’t require complicated recipes. A plate of grilled salmon with roasted sweet potatoes and steamed broccoli might not seem flashy, but it’s effective fuel for your body and easy to prepare.
Mindful Eating Habits
It’s easy to rush through meals without paying attention to how much we’re consuming. Take a few minutes before eating to pause and appreciate your food. Set your fork down between bites. These small changes reduce overeating and improve digestion, all while reinforcing simplicity.
Step 3 - Prioritize Recovery
Recovery is one of the most neglected areas of training, but it’s just as essential as the time you spend at the gym. If you’re constantly exhausted, your results will stall. Here’s how to simplify and optimize your recovery.
Get Quality Sleep
Sleep is foundational. Aim for 7-8 hours of uninterrupted sleep each night. Quality matters as much as quantity, so consider a few adjustments:
- Screen Time Reduction: Avoid screens an hour before bed. Blue light from devices disrupts melatonin production, a hormone essential for sleep.
- Create a Wind-Down Routine: Whether it’s reading a book or listening to calming music, a nightly routine signals your body that it’s time to rest.
Simple Stress-Relief Practices
Life is chaotic, and stress is unavoidable. Embrace a few simple stress-relief strategies that don’t take hours:
- Breathing Exercises: Try deep breathing or box breathing, where you inhale for four seconds, hold for four, exhale for four, and pause for four. Repeat as needed to calm your mind.
- Gratitude Journaling: Spend five minutes jotting down things you’re thankful for. This practice keeps you grounded, focusing on the positives.
Self-Care Basics
Stretching, foam rolling, and massages can work wonders for your body. You don’t need a lengthy recovery routine. Just 10-15 minutes of light stretching or foam rolling after workouts helps reduce muscle tension and soreness, preparing you for the next session.
Step 4 - Invest in Coaching
You might have the knowledge to succeed, but it’s hard to stay accountable without support. A coach brings both structure and accountability—two pillars that keep you grounded, focused, and progressing.
Set Concrete, Achievable Goals
Rather than vague aspirations, set clear goals with your coach. For instance, “Lose 12 pounds in 12 weeks” or “Complete 20 unbroken push-ups” is specific, measurable, and time-bound.
- Break Down Your Goals: Instead of seeing 12 pounds as a single objective, break it down into small, manageable steps, like aiming to lose 1 pound a week. This approach keeps you motivated and prevents burnout.
Consistency through Accountability
A coach checks in on your progress, which can make all the difference when motivation wanes. Having someone there to guide and hold you accountable helps you push past obstacles.
Reward Milestones
Celebrating progress keeps you motivated. Don’t just focus on the end goal; reward yourself for hitting key milestones. Lost 5 pounds? Treat yourself to a new workout outfit. Hit your PR in deadlifts? Take time to acknowledge the hard work that got you there.
Clear Out the Mental Clutter
Our minds are bombarded with information daily. Simplifying mentally is essential to staying focused. Here’s how to clear mental clutter:
Pick Trusted Sources
Not every source of information is necessary or helpful. Select a couple of trusted experts—ones whose values and approaches align with yours—and ignore the rest. This cuts down on conflicting advice and the “information overload” that stalls action.
Unplug Regularly
Sometimes the simplest way to clear mental clutter is to step away from the constant flow of information. Set aside an hour each day to unplug from screens and notifications. This time can be spent on things like journaling, walking, or enjoying a hobby—anything that recharges your mental batteries.
Daily Simplicity Practices
Incorporating simplicity into your daily life isn’t complex, but it does take consistency. Try these simple, actionable practices to reinforce a clear, focused mindset:
- Start Your Day with a Purpose: Instead of checking your phone first thing, take a few moments to set an intention for the day. This helps you focus on one main priority rather than feeling overwhelmed by everything at once.
- Reduce Decision Fatigue: Plan your day the night before. Choose your outfit, prepare meals, and set up your work or workout schedule. Reducing the number of decisions you make daily frees up mental energy.
- Apply the “Two-Minute Rule”: If a task takes less than two minutes to complete, do it immediately. This prevents small tasks from piling up and contributing to stress.
Commit to Your Life’s Mission
When you’re clear on your mission, each day has purpose, and simplicity follows. Instead of getting bogged down by every task or distraction, you’ll focus on the things that bring you closer to your mission.
Define Your Mission
A personal mission statement guides your decisions. To create one, ask yourself:
- What’s the legacy I want to leave?
- What values guide my actions?
Once you define it, let this mission shape every choice you make. It becomes your filter, helping you decide what deserves your time and energy and what doesn’t.
Action Questions for Each Day Check in with yourself daily:
- Did I train with intention?
- Did I eat mindfully?
- Did I prioritize rest and recovery?
If the answer is yes, you’re living in alignment with your mission. If not, simplify by returning to the basics.
Embrace Simplicity, Take Action
Simplicity drives clarity, and clarity fuels progress. By reducing mental and physical clutter, focusing on core habits, and aligning with your mission, you’ll find it easier to take action consistently.
Commit to simplicity and see how it transforms your ability to focus, act, and achieve. Don’t waste time chasing perfection or “quick fixes.” Focus on what truly matters and take action, one simple step at a time.
Summary:
In a world that pushes us toward complexity—be it through constant notifications, endless “life hacks,” or advice from a dozen different directions—it’s easy to feel paralyzed. That’s where simplicity comes in. Embracing simplicity doesn’t mean you’ll give up on results. Quite the opposite. Simplifying your approach means stripping away the unnecessary to focus on the essentials, allowing you to make steady, meaningful progress toward your goals.
To your success,
Coach Joe
Joseph Arangio helps 40+ men and women get leaner, stronger, and happier. He's delivered over 100,000 transformation programs to satisfied clients around the globe. If you want to lose weight from home, with the best online age-management personal trainer, or you want to visit the best longevity program in the Lehigh Valley, you can take a free 14-day trial.